You Don’t Know What It’s Like To Be An Addict

Maybe I don’t know what it’s like to be physically dependent on drugs. Yes, that you are right. I’ve never been physically addicted to anything myself. But losing my mother to addiction and having a child with someone who was tormented by the same disease has given me some insight that I pray nobody else … Read more

Where Was The Mom???

**I AM NOT THE ORIGINAL WRITER**   The answer is simple. Right there. At the pre-natal class. At the parenting class. Laboring to give birth. Soothing her crying baby. Rocking her baby. Watching her baby sleep. Right there. Recording her baby’s milestones. Child-proofing her house. Preserving a tiny tooth, a clip of hair. Strapping her … Read more

Shatter the Silence

🗣🗣 PSA 🗣🗣 As you head into your weekend let me give you some food for thought. Often times addiction is labeled. Those struggling get overlooked. Their voices aren’t heard. Rather than turn a blind eye take a minute to listen 👂🏼. I mean really listen to them. We are all just a bunch of … Read more

“When You’re Willing to Feel, You’re Ready to Heal”

Scrolling through Pinterest this morning and I came across this quote: “When you’re willing to feel it, you’re ready to heal it.” If that doesn’t ring true for me, I don’t know what does. This past week has been a roller coaster of emotions. Lots of highs and even a few lows. When I launched … Read more

EMPATHY VS. ENABLING

How can you have empathy towards your addict without enabling? In some situations the two seem to intertwine. When you find out someone close to you has an addiction, many of us have the initial reaction of: How could you do this? But in reality we should be asking: Why would you do this? Now … Read more

A Message to Parents Through a Child’s Eyes

Children are a gift from above

God gave them to you to be showered with love

Some choose not to be there and leave them alone

But what they don’t realize is one day they’ll be grown

All this time they’ll never get back

These children will be bitter and that’s a fact

That parent held responsible for their heart so cold

But one day they’ll tell you-so bold

They’ll ask “Where were you when I needed you?”

“I wasn’t just some kid, I needed you too!”

“All those nights I stayed up and cried”

“And you weren’t the one there wiping my eyes”

“Someone else took the opportunity and filled that empty space”

“Even though I knew, no one could take your place”

“But now I’m not crying for you to be here”

“I realize you made a choice, made so clear”

“Living your life was more important than shaping mine”

“And as you can see I made it. Grown and Fine”

“And after today I don’t want to see you again”

“I’m no longer your child, don’t even wanna be your friend”

See parents it’s easy to SAY you’ll be there

But how many of you are actually aware

That your kids are growing and learning every day

When your child asks these questions what will you say?

This is one thing you won’t be able to lie your way out

Because they’ll remember who was there without a doubt

Evaluate your relationship, make it right

You never know if tonight is the night

That your child will say” I’m finished, you weren’t there”

“You made no effort and now I don’t care”

“A person like you I don’t need”

“All you worried about was YOUR mouth to feed”

“I’m leaving now, I’m walking away”

“Going meet who was there for me every day”

“Paint a pretty picture for someone who doesn’t know”

“I have my own life, see ya, gotta go”

 

Written by: Kylie LeBlanc

July 2008